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Modest Dress

Many people who choose to adopt religiously observant dress do so in a slightly more modern context. Historically among Quakers, there were always those who wore what was currently fashionable but omitted objectionable frills and fancies. At one time, all a Quaker woman had to do to "go plain" was to move her kerchief from being tucked into the neck of her dress to being worn on the outside and adopting the Quaker cap rather than one of the current styles of caps. In this day and age, simply wearing a modest skirt can be quite the statement, as well as covering. I know a Friend who chooses to wear skirts who went in to work on her day off wearing jeans. A co-worker saw her and was shocked because she assumed that since this Friend wore skirts so religiously, skirts were a religious requirement of the Quakers.

Generally, women who observe modest dress do not wear the traditionally plain cap styles, usually preferring "Bush" or "Charity" veils or head scarves and kerchiefs. They usually observe strict gender difference in their styles, wearing hand-sewn modest dresses of a feminine print, florals being popular. They cite:

"The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God." Deuteronomy 22:5

While their clothes may seem old fashioned in spirit, they are not specifically anachronistic and usually do not have symbolically important items. Jumpers are also a popular choice. Women in this category almost always keep their hair long. Makeup and jewelry may be worn, particularly for preserving feminine appearance. When they are avoided, it is usually per I Timothy 2:9,10.

Some resources for non-traditional plain, modest dress and coverings:

  • PrayerCoverings.com
  • ChristianCoverings.com
  • HeadCoverings.com These women have a wide range of covering styles available. They are slow to deliver, but what they deliver is very well made.
  • The King's Daughters Modest dresses and jumpers, with an excellent selection of maternity and nursing wear. I have heard good things about them, and they seem to have pretty, functional styles.
  • Pure in Heart Specializes in lovely, full-skirted jumpers.
  • Lydia of Purple Cape and modest dresses and jumpers. I like their aprons.
  • WorksOfTheHeart.com Offer "feminine, modest apparel."
  • Modest Handmaids "Modest handmaidens is a home-based, Christian cottage industry which seeks to reach ladies who have the desire to honor the godly principles of modest dress."
  • A Joyful Handmaiden offers wonderfully feminine styles for girls and women. Their dresses for expectant mothers seem particularly well-designed and lovely while being functional.

The Modest Clothes Directory has an ever-evolving list of links to websites offering ready-made, made-to-measurement and patterns for modest dress and headcoverings.

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"Possess them as if ye did not"

THEREFORE take heed of the World's Vanity, and trust not in uncertain Riches, neither covet the Riches of this World, but Seek the Kingdom of God, and the Righteousness thereof, and all other things will follow; and let your Minds be above the costly and vain Fashions of Attire, but mind the hidden Man of the Heart, which is a meek and a quiet Spirit, which is of great Price with the Lord And keep to Justice and Truth in all your Dealings and Tradings, at a Word, and to the form of sound Words, ...

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